Flirting with Love!!

You might be a professional flirt, but when you are in love, you can't recognize that your crush is flirting with you...!!!

So lets start, what exactly is love? Well the famous wikipedia defines it as follows: Love is any of a number of emotions related to a sense of strong affection and attachment.
After spending some time on the Internet, I got myself a nice definition. Here is it: Love - a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker.


And what exactly is flirting? Again taking the wikipedia's help, we have the following: Flirting is a common form of social interaction whereby one person obliquely indicates a romantic or sexual interest towards another. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated (encouraged) with intentions of getting to know that person on a higher level.
And after spending hours on the Internet I couldn't get a nice definition of flirting...


But in these times it is true that people are turning professional flirts and keeping more partners online and quite often engaging in cyber sex. (For more information search wikipedia) Decades these used to phone sex. People used to have extra martial affairs and call girls used to be available... With the changing times the mindset of people changed. Now-a-days people think five times before approaching a girl in real life (and that if they would be making a fool of themselves) than sending a friend request in the various social networking sites. Life has turned virtual in the digital age.

These online relationships are usually more of flirting than relationships. There are even people who think twice before calling a girl they met online. People these days have become well-versed in flirting because of the daily and constant practice through online IM chat (Instant Messaging) or via SMS and phone calls whose rates have dropped faster than the clothes of female film stars.
In this way love has lost its meaning. It is so easy to find a new partner online that people fall for a new girl/boy almost everyday. But tru love does not happen everyday. I also recently found an application in facebook called "Lover of the Day" or something. An application like "Friend of the Day" is good but the former is aimed to destroy the meaning of love....

To conclude I can say that "A lover a day keeps love away".... and also "A friend a day keeps enemies away".....

:: Love :: Lust :: Addiction ::

Going through the blogs of many teenagers, I have found that most of them are related to love or lust either directly or indirectly. Usually they write this when they come out of relationships in which their heart was.

They use these blogs as a way to vent out their inner feelings out and also make their head lighter. Most of the time one question is asked: How can I find true love? or When will I find true love? or Where will I? and all similar stuff.

The answers clear, if you go on the right track, you will find love, if not, you won't. Most people go on the wrong track. That track is the track of 'Addiction' - addiction to LUST.....

People have a partner, they cheat. They do two-timing. One night Stands. All because of addiction to lust. They are all addicted. When in two-timing, they have one as a true lover, other as just time-pass for their addiction....

Other reasons include porn... Many or most teenagers (boys) are addicted to porn. They watch it always. This brings in them a desire to turn naughty. They fall in love just for the sake of fun, just for kisses or so... Prolonged addiction to porn, with no girl in a boy's life, brings in frustration.

Usually these addicts don't find people to fall for, so their friends of the opposite sex fall prey to these. They fall in love with almost every person of the opposite sex they meet. They flirt with others even when they are in a relationship. Slowly when his partner gets to know about this, a breakup occurs and then again that partner in drawn into addiction and this continues.

People don't show love to their love when they need it the most. It is true that many people fall for lust. They soon get addicted to it. When they become serial lovers or get addicted to one night stands, a time comes when their partner catches them directly or indirectly. Then a breakup occurs. It is the time when the partner is expected to show her love and explain him and take him to counselors. They don't understand their partner's addiction.

Break up is not a good option if you see your partner cheating. They will go for sex with a girl they meet anywhere, but they won't propose sex to their girlfriends. They are always out to find better girl's in the market... Always!!!

Addicts themselves don't get to understand if they are addicted. The people surrounding them seldom understands. They are hurt in every corner they go. Come to reality, if you know any one suffering from this, help him, take him to communities like Sexaholics Anonymous or so.... Help them recover from this deadly addiction. Find your true love by killing lust for others.

Emotional Attyachar

Recently a new show titled Emotional Attyachar was started on UTV Bindass.... It does some loyalty on a certain person to find out if he/she is loyal to his partner. This test is done only when his/her partner wants it. They make a set-up with hidden cameras and post a sexy model to lure the person on whom this test is done. Then they show these hidden cam videos to the person who wanted this test to be done.

Now in most cases the person on whom the test is conducted happens to be disloyal. Usually this show ends with a breakup. Usually boys are targetted as suspects, but sometimes girls also become targets. Only once I had found a girl loyal and in that case itself, the boy was disloyal... The boy dug his own grave.

Since I happen to me man, so I will soeak for the men here. The makers of the show don't know lust. Even in 2/3 year relationships, they have not kissed, but men kiss with the undercover agent. This is because not only are these agents sexy and have well toned body, they are also sometimes TV reality show stars and knows all tricks to lure men into their net.

There was a case which showed a boy two-timing.... One girl was his partner for 2.5 years, another one for only 3... Still he went with the undercover agent. You will have to agree that the ability to control lust varies form person to person, some can control falling for lust for their love, while some treat that as a one night stand...When the time came for this boy to explain, he clearly got his priorities right... He went up to answer the girl whom he loved truly for 2.5 years and the 3 months girl went on calling him and he pushed him. Is this not quite clear? A man loves only one girl truly, the other girls are just for lust...
For the girls reading this I can say one thing, love your boyfriend truly only after two years... Then is the time when he will owe you an explanation, he won't give an explanation for a 3 month relationship. Most are addicted to lust, they would end up in bed with that 3 month old relationship. Nothing else. Also people are around always searching for better products in the market... Better girls...!!!

And you cannot fiend true love at one go. So you need to flirt a lot in order to know the mindset of the opposite gender, then you will be able to understand your partner.

Faith in God and finding your Love

You know why people have lost faith in God? Well may be one of the possible reasons is love. It may sound weird but it is surely true (as of my knowledge) that most girls think that “All boys are the same”. They say “He f*****g used me… He used me for his own selfish interests and now you see him with another girl. He even asked my best friend not to tell anything about his affair with her to me. All they want is sex and they only love your body.”

And then again in this world you will also find there are boys who say “Look at my best friend, I never had an idea that he would betray me and go with her. And you know what a loser I am? That day she came and told me that she was with my class mate in his car going to a party. I mean how could she forget me? I loved her, she loved me and she had told this to me too… This is very bad.”

And they cry to themselves.

Now comes God… He is the savior, he comes to help you (and some times forgets to) when you call him, so why the hell could he not help mortals get the right match for their life? Making mistakes makes you land in hell, He does not even care when mortals make mistakes and ends up with the wrong person. Why does he not help us get the right path?
Well then who is to be blamed? Who? I guess God cannot be blamed, so mortals only are to be blamed. Now you can blame them by saying that they are only responsible for increasing the population and lowering the probability of finding the perfect match at one go. So help in lowering down the population, spread the use of condoms… You will increase the chances of finding your love… (Speaking Mathematically)